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William Carpenter Noel Shore

He was a very handsome man, wavy hair, blue eyes, and must have been a great flirt in his day for when I first went to Dublin nearly every old lady whom his sister – Aunt Bessie brought to call on me whispered confidentially “My dear I thought at one time I might have been your Aunt” or remembered him very very well after so many years.  I fancy too he had no idea of the value of money and was very wasteful of it – for we were very badly off after his death and from what I know there was no reason for us to be so.  He was a Major in the Militia, not the regular army. 

They went back to live in Dublin. In 1876, their daughter, Caroline Mary was born, followed in 1878 by the birth of a son, John Teignmouth William.  Caroline was always known as Cis and John was always called Jack.  Around 1880, the family moved to London where William had a position as an Examiner in the Treasury Department.  In spite of being handsome and sweeping Mary off her feet, he was absolutely hopeless with money.  Mary’s brothers made a lot of money speculating on the stock exchange etc, however, William didn’t have their luck and must have lost the lot, as when he died, Charles Adamthwaite came and took away all Mary’s wedding presents – silver, crystal etc – to help repay some of the money he had loaned William. 

William died in 1888 in the Hospital for Heart Disease, in Soho Square, London.  Poor Mary and the two children were left very badly off and in the 1991 Census were living in lodgings in Kensington.  However, her two sisters, Fanny who was married to Kenric Murray, Secretary of the London Chamber of Commerce, and Lucy who was married to Major Hughes took care of them all.  In spite of taking all her wedding presents, her brother Charles was also very kind to them. 

 

Charles was married to William’s sister Caroline Shore (Carrie) and they had two sons, Charles and Cyril.  Charles and his family lived in the countryside near Daventry where Charles bred polo ponies. He also had a parrot who got drunk on port every night and invariably fell on the floor off his perch to sleep it off. 

In another letter to my mother, Aunt Cis writes about her grand-daughter, Molly Neligan - 

(Molly) is a young lady with a most limited stock of patience. There is the Adamthwaite touch there. As a family I never knew any who had so little, especially the men. Mother and Aunt Lucy were exceptions, especially Mother. The men were hopeless, at least Uncle Charles and John.  Lupton I never met after I was six or so. Aunt Fanny was very impatient too, both with things and people.

 

Charles on one of his polo ponies

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